Sensory Processing and Behavior: What Parents Should Know

It’s hard to walk into a store these days without spotting fidgets, sensory toys, or sensory bins on display. While these tools can be helpful, understanding how sensory processing and behavior are interconnected is key to supporting your child’s unique needs. These foundational sensory systems influence everything from focus and coordination to emotional regulation and learning readiness.

The Eight Sensory Systems: More Than Meets the Eye

Five External Senses

Most of us are familiar with these classic sensory channels:

  • Sight (visual)
  • Sound (auditory)
  • Touch (tactile)
  • Taste (gustatory)
  • Smell (olfactory)

Three Internal Senses

Less known but equally critical are the internal sensory systems:

  • Proprioception (body position awareness)
  • Vestibular (movement and balance)
  • Interoception (internal body awareness)

Sensory processing is how our brains make sense of the world. Beyond just our five main senses, we have internal systems that help us:

  • Understand our body’s position
  • Process movement and help with our balance
  • Recognize internal needs
  • Interact with our environment
  • Regulate our emotions

Critical Internal Sensory Systems Explained

Body Awareness System (Proprioception)

The proprioceptive system:

  • Provides feedback from muscles and joints
  • Helps understand body position in space
  • Forms the foundation for body awareness
  • Supports coordination and balance
  • Enables efficient movement
  • Guides physical interactions

How it affects behavior: When your child jumps, climbs, or pushes against resistance, their proprioceptive system activates, often creating a calming, organizing effect. Children seeking proprioceptive input may crash into furniture, push against others, or chew on objects—behaviors that signal sensory needs rather than misbehavior.

Movement Sense (Vestibular System)

Located in the inner ear, the vestibular system:

  • Detects head movement
  • Controls balance and postural control
  • Affects coordination
  • Influences emotional regulation
  • Supports focus and attention
  • Regulates alertness level
  • Impacts speech and language development – children are often more talkative during and after movement
  • Helps maintain eye contact

Behavioral impact: Children with vestibular processing challenges may constantly seek movement (spinning, rocking, jumping) or conversely, avoid movement experiences. These behaviors directly reflect their nervous system’s needs rather than attention-seeking.

Internal Awareness (Interoception)

This often-overlooked sensory system helps:

  • Monitor body functions such as heartbeat, breathing and digestion
  • Recognize hunger/thirst
  • Signal bathroom needs
  • Identify and regulate emotions

Connection to behavior: Children with poor interoceptive awareness may have sudden emotional outbursts because they don’t recognize the gradual build-up of frustration, hunger, or physical discomfort until it becomes overwhelming. What looks like a tantrum may actually be a response to unrecognized internal signals.

The Tactile System: Our Body’s Protective Wrapper

What is the Tactile System?

The touch sense:

  • Helps explore our world
  • Protects from danger
    • Responds to pain and extreme temperatures
  • Supports emotional bonds
  • Processes physical sensations
  • Guides social connections
  • Influences comfort level
  • Supports learning

Behavioral signs of tactile sensitivity: Children who are tactile defensive may pull away from hugs, become anxious during messy play, or have strong preferences about clothing textures. These responses aren’t willful disobedience but protective neurological reactions.

Movement and Exploration Are Key tp Sensory Processing

Why Natural Movement Matters for Behavior

Children need movement because:

  • It’s crucial for brain development
  • Helps integrate sensory systems
  • Supports self-regulation
  • Builds body awareness
  • Enhances emotional resilience
  • Improves focus
  • Develops coordination

Behavioral transformation: Many children labeled as “hyperactive” or “inattentive” show remarkable improvements in focus and regulation after appropriate movement activities that satisfy their sensory needs.

Today’s Sensory and Behavioral Challenges

Modern lifestyles often limit:

  • Unstructured movement opportunities
  • Sensory-rich activities
  • Active exploration
  • Natural development of sensory systems
  • Physical play
  • Outdoor time

Supporting Healthy Sensory Processing for Better Behavior

Creating Sensory-Supporting Environments

Simple ways to support sensory processing and behavior:

  • Provide daily opportunities for active play
  • Include a variety of textures in play experiences
  • Create safe spaces for spinning, jumping, and climbing
  • Incorporate heavy work activities (pushing, pulling, carrying)
  • Balance screen time with active, hands-on experiences
  • Respect individual sensory preferences while gently expanding comfort zones

Recognizing When Behavior Is Communication

Common behaviors that may indicate sensory processing needs:

  • Difficulty sitting still
  • Extreme reactions to sounds or textures
  • Frequent crashing, bumping, or rough play
  • Avoidance of certain activities or environments
  • Meltdowns during transitions or in overstimulating environments
  • Difficulty with emotional regulation
  • Unusual body positioning or movement patterns

Reframing Behavior Through a Sensory Lens

Understanding your child’s sensory processing and behavior connections provides valuable insight into their actions, preferences, and needs. By supporting healthy sensory development through appropriate activities and environments, you help build a strong foundation for positive behavior, emotional regulation, and social success.

When we recognize that challenging behavior is often communication about unmet sensory needs, we can respond with compassion and practical strategies rather than frustration. Instead of asking “why won’t my child behave,” we can ask “what sensory need is my child trying to meet?” This shift in perspective transforms our approach to supporting children through their sensory journey.Want to learn more about Sensory Processing, check out our blog:

 

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Kendra Worley

I am a pediatric Occupational Therapist with over 20 years of experience and the founder of Skidamarink Kids. As both a professional and mother of children with special needs, I created the Tantrum Tamer App to empower families with practical tools for emotional regulation and development. I am passionate about helping children flourish through nurturing environments and evidence-based strategies. See Full Bio

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